Very easy. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read. . I often attract men who has Leo personal planets which falls in my 12th house. I have friends and one niece with Moon/Cancer who are entirely emotional and often easily bruised, though they hide it well under their hard, decorative shells. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. inscryption cards. Hes cuddly and affectionate so that makes up for it. Infatuation can't run this deep. First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. This is because there are endless ways these things can play. You are BLESSED!! I could feel something so deep. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. Mars is a aggressive action oriented planet and again as always it would depend on the individual who is activating your 12th house. Problem is that I feel like I know his soul. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. But I guess with the 12th house influence I may never know. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. Hmm idk all of this is confusing.. now I will admit we do mirror each other a lot and both get mad at each other for things that we both do because we both know what the other one is actually doing its kinda annoying I see a lot of things about myself in him .. we have a baby on the way we both work super hard and always together I had an astrologer tell me I probably wont ever meet his family and I met them all and also in another state same for him so Im confused with this, Sometimes 12th house synastry is easier if you have strong Neptune placements or 12th house placements because your more familiar with it. Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. Trish how did you get over it!?! In other words he wanted us to remain in a hidden while he is married and has political career. Spirtual, Telepathic, Emotionally, Karmic, & Soulful. The water faucet with no shut off valve, lol. The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. Sent 5 times a week. I have neptune (Sagitarius) in my 7th house with Gemini rising. I am the 12th house person. I can relate to almost all you've been saying. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). SPOOKY!! He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. You can be very supportive and will enjoy much of your time alone together away from it all. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. As you said, these people were my ideal. The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. I even took a sleep aid and could not sleep. My 12th Houser actually taught and showed me the GEMINI IN ME that I was in denial of. Ironically, your experience sounds much like my own, excepting my 12th Houser turned mean and abusive, even though I was ARMS OPEN to him at all times. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. GOD-awful!! The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. Conversely, he denies my physical needs. This is the 1st time I've ever felt like I've met my other half.. my soulmate. If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. We re still connected somehow bit in a weird way :(. He does remind me of a father figure in a way. You need to be clear in areas such as this, find out why you met this person or they you? Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! I guess the best way I can describe it is as if it's partially a dream. Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. This is especially true with the Moon here but other planets as well. The 12th House is also known as the House of mystery while Venus symbolizes intuition and artful communication. Double whammies. This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. (Waving). It may not display this or other websites correctly. And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. Or it can bring us confusion, misunderstandings, enhance our fears, and sometimes scare our darn pants off like when were having a nightmare. If his actions speak (this would be something your pick up on intuitively) that he loves you, but his words dont. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". Am THANKFUL that it finally ended, but at the same time I value the lessons learned from our dance. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 All we can do is hope for something good in the future! You need some fire. The first thing to . For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. That said, I do know something about this. Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. Sometimes the experience in this house is painful other times it's purely magical. Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. when i came back there was this weird thing between us. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. =). He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. He might love you but in his own way. Wow! All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. And he keeps saying that he feels like he knows me for 100 years, so familiar, and that he just knows I would understand him no metter what. Registered: May 2009. posted June 11, 2013 02:39 PM. I trust everything happens for a reason! I'm very new here so read at your own risk! For one odd reason I never completely believed him. Weekend Love Forecast Leo Moon Mood With Some Dramatic STYLE, Full Moon in Virgo: March 7, 2023 Mutable T-Square Distractions, Sign up to be notified when the blog updates. Lol. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. He knows exactly how I feel about him because I've told him precisely and he doesn't feel the same way but he is always so concerned about if I'm dating/talking with anyone. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. He understands me in a very deep level. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus There are other harsh aspects between our charts, but overall the more connective and important synastry points overrule the bad. So we became " friends" . This is the house of Venus and Taurus, so there will also be some jealousy and protectiveness of each other as well. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. That 12th house is a tricky one, and both charts would be helpful in sorting through all that. Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. All 12th House relationships are not bad; mine was. He always wants to make sure im not hungry and that i have money on me. Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. As if something beyond ourself is guiding us.what is this shit, ive been asking me many many timesand is there a way to get over this?? The Venus person embodies the ideal partner of the Juno person. I resonate with the guy you wrote about in your article. Now i understand the mystery of the house that touch our soul. He was so familiar, which I think it's because of the NN connections. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. I just recently met someone by accident online (a learning site.) Your email address will not be published. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. His Venus and Jupiter fall in my 9th house. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! I love him, he opens me up to questions I would never put a name to but a part of me just wants to run away where he cant find me. someone's venus in my 12th, feel unconditional/boundless love for him. It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . Even PRAY, and pray hard for them to LEAVE you, your sector, your spirit. Just cant get past my Gemini obsessions, I guess. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Hes not cold at all. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! How is in your case? My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. Sent 3-5 times a week. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . His moon fall in my 5th house. What does it mean, and how does it affectthings? Sounds karmic or so I think. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. I have a very bad experience with someone's mars on my 12th house. The North Node represents our souls goal in this l Mercury in Partners 1st house You will inspire easy communication with your partner. The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. I wish I could see your charts so I could have a better picture of this. Double whammies in my opinion are like gateways of energy between the two people the energy is mutual, open, and receptive- going both ways. I feel like I know this person really well but maybe this relationship is build on misunderstandings and confusion? It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). JavaScript is disabled. NO THANKS!!! I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. The 12th house is the house of the spirit, it's deep and mysterious, and usually where we find our guides, angels or demons. For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. There is always a lesson and something you will learn and realize that the relationship was fated for some purpose bigger than you origionally thought but not meant to live out in this lifetime. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. Posts: 2196From: UranusRegistered: May 2011. Please see special article on The 12th house synastry along with Neptune Moon Aspects for the descriptions will explain in greater detail. be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. And it is hard and painful for a physical person like me. It s killing me . It's probably love bordering on obsession. From all levels! To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. More so after 15 years. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheavenif somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, Im gone. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. But I didn't consider him anymore. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Posts: 45239From: Saturn next to CharmainecRegistered: Apr 2009, He tries to act like he's not the jealous type but he is. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. I really like the Leo energy. No way, jose. just keep on going in the OPPOSITE direction away from me as FAR AS YOU CAN!! People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. Can he just not see it because of this placement? My Moon quincunx his Moon. In all cases this is really karmic moment. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. If neither one has any issues like these then the relationship does not need to take on such a heavy role and can then be about many of the positive aspects of this house. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. I can not understand entirely the situation just based on those aspects there is a lot to Astrology I would need to see all the charts in order to properly comment any further. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. it doesn't work or they don't like me? Cause he had to be free. i have a guy who i'm so into him , he have his sun, venus, mercury and jupiter in gemini on my 12th house. I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. So, you can imagine what kind of connection this still is. Thanks for being so detailed. The element of secrecy makes their relationship intense and glamorous. I also have met two men, 1 in the past and the other one currently that many of my planets fall into their 12th house. In fact, I was his spiritual company for more than the twenty years we spent apart. I wonder what the key is to making these unusual relationships work.. http://www.nodeorama.com/viewtopic.php?id=2480, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6930. From there on, things never became the same anymore. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. Why this could be happen? My moon falls in someone's 12th house. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. I then felt like the reason why it felt strange to me seemed to be that I was picking up his symptoms rather than experiencing illness myself (there was also "a fog" kind of feel to it too.) and yourself? Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. But it's OK because we love being around each other. Your email address will not be published. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. And thats when he disappeared. Glad that its OVER!! To me and my daughter since we both dont have our dads. He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit. Neptune can be downright painful, intentionally or not, he's the master illusionist and we can easily get tripped up in fantasy that is not really real at all.